Mean Girls #2
Sunday wasn’t a typical day on the forums. A young woman dealing with HIV and drug addiction posted a disturbing message. She claimed she was going to kill herself with a bottle of Xanax and vodka. Her post went into detail about her desperation for acceptance and support from her family, who has turned their back on her.
She also posted about a woman on the site who has been bullying her in the forums and how hopeless she felt because of it. She was coming to the site for friendship and emotional support and was met with humiliation and degradation more than once.
Fortunately one of her friends on the site had her phone number and contacted the local police in her town. The police found her address and they responded. She was found in time before she hurt herself. I have no doubt she was in an emotional crisis and if she hadn’t reached out for help she may have acted on her impulse to die.
The bully is one of the “heartless duo” (AKA Snake and Fake). I mentioned them in my earlier post Mean Girls #1. They stalk their prey together and then gang bang bully their victim. Snake is a ruthless 50 year old hag who prowls through the forums begging for attention. Fake is a bully in her late 50’s who desperately seeks approval.
Snake and Fake are a team but Snake is clearly the instigator. Fake follows her around the forums and adds her hateful, vicious comments to the posts that Snake targets. It’s obvious that they’re both damaged and neither has control over their need to belittle other women.
I hope the woman in crisis gets the professional help she needs. Her life is hard and dismal. The last thing she needs is to come to the forums and be bullied. Snake showed no remorse and took no responsibility for what happened with that woman. The next day she was doing the same thing to someone else.
Cyber stalkers are cowards whose written words are poison to the minds and emotions of the victims they choose.
Posted on April 25, 2012, in Dating & Sex, Health, Relationships, Stalkers, Writing and tagged assault, cyberbullies, musings, online dating, rants, relationships, stalkers, women. Bookmark the permalink. 20 Comments.