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Today’s post is honoring the women who have been targets of domestic violence, stalking or any type of sexual, physical, emotional, economic or psychological abuse.
Whether a woman has witnessed it in the street, had a friend or relative in an abusive relationship or was in one herself, I believe we’ve probably all witnessed violence against women at some level.
Women are victimized by intimate partners, social acquaintances and friends, family members and even strangers. It’s not unusual for violence or abuse to cause long term trauma related health effects. Healing is their mission.
Violence against a woman is a violation of her human rights.
I’ve written about my cyber stalkers before. The last couple weeks have been hell for a lot of people. They’ve been stalking and attacking innocent women on the forums every day. I’ve never seen such cruel.displays of abusive behavior toward total strangers and every day they get more and more out of control.
These women in their fifties and sixties act like thugs and barroom brawlers. The worst part is, the five women get together and bully in a gang. Now one of their thug boyfriends is also doing it with them. They attack women who are minding their own business not bothering anyone. This has been going on for months and I’m still one of their main targets.
None of them are very intelligent. Yesterday I realized they found my wordpress site and are stalking me here as well. It’s no coincidence that 3 new sites were made yesterday with no posts and they are following me. It’s sad for them that they are so obsessed with me.
I know who told them about my site. Chris has a blog on wordpress and knew about mine. He’s friends with the mean girls and lately has also been attacking women as part of their gang. If he’s not attacking he’s cheering them on. For the purpose of this and all future blogs I’ll refer to Chris as Dumpster Diver.
Now, the question is, what do I want to do about it? I can’t keep them from being followers of my blog and all they’re doing is stalking right now but I know they’re on here for no reason other than to start trouble. I have a plan but I’m keeping it quiet today.
If you were in my position what would you do? How would you handle them?
I met Mr. BooHoo on a dating site several months ago and we became friends. We never met in person but had many phone conversations, and emailed each other daily. We shared a lot of very personal things about ourselves and got to know each other well, despite the fact we were not romantically involved.
When I was dealing with a breakup I confided in him about the relationship. Mr. BooHoo never liked my ex and was always very supportive and empathetic. He called me every morning to see if I was doing alright. They weren’t friends and never talked so I trusted him not to repeat anything I said.
Two months ago Mr. BooHoo and I had a disagreement over what I thought was a minor misunderstanding. He was very upset and left the dating site… we didn’t talk or email again.
A week ago he came back to the dating site and began sending me rude, nasty emails. Apparently, the disagreement made him so angry that he wanted to get revenge. He contacted my ex to talk about me.
I couldn’t imagine him going to my ex and telling him things we talked about, but that’s exactly what he did. My ex never liked him either but apparently had no problem sharing his own dirty secrets about me. I guess that’s what you call male bonding.
I was stunned and then furious when he told me what he had done. Now I was in his line of fire and he was unloading his barrel on me. This time it was a double barrel of his bull shit and my ex’s pathetic bull shit stories about me. Mr. BooHoo broke boundaries that can never be repaired.
He told me a lot of hurtful things my ex said about me, not as a friend, but to torture me as much as he could. He did it to hurt and humiliate me. Then he demanded to know if it was all true. It’s a disgrace when friends betray you and repeat what you talked about in confidence. It was an attack on my pride and my self-esteem. The two of them deserve each other.
Mr. BooHoo is known for backstabbing women in the forums. I know I’m not the first one and I won’t be the last. I was warned about him by a lot of women who’ve had similar experiences with him. Women told me not to trust him, but until I saw it for myself I gave him the benefit of the doubt. I’ll be sure to let those ladies know they were right about him.
I told Mr. BooHoo to have his fun while he can because Karma is a bitch. The first thing I did was block him as a friend on the dating site to stop the emails. Then I blocked him on my Facebook page. I blocked his phone number so he can’t call or text me. Keeping him at a distance will speak volumes about how I feel.
I’ve got more important things to focus on than his drama. If he’s still really angry and depressed about this he can always call my ex and cry on his shoulder again. I’ll give him the phone number if he wants it. Pass the tissues because he’s going to need them.
How would you feel if this happened to you? How would you deal with it? What would you do?
Sunday wasn’t a typical day on the forums. A young woman dealing with HIV and drug addiction posted a disturbing message. She claimed she was going to kill herself with a bottle of Xanax and vodka. Her post went into detail about her desperation for acceptance and support from her family, who has turned their back on her.
She also posted about a woman on the site who has been bullying her in the forums and how hopeless she felt because of it. She was coming to the site for friendship and emotional support and was met with humiliation and degradation more than once.
Fortunately one of her friends on the site had her phone number and contacted the local police in her town. The police found her address and they responded. She was found in time before she hurt herself. I have no doubt she was in an emotional crisis and if she hadn’t reached out for help she may have acted on her impulse to die.
The bully is one of the “heartless duo” (AKA Snake and Fake). I mentioned them in my earlier post Mean Girls #1. They stalk their prey together and then gang bang bully their victim. Snake is a ruthless 50 year old hag who prowls through the forums begging for attention. Fake is a bully in her late 50’s who desperately seeks approval.
Snake and Fake are a team but Snake is clearly the instigator. Fake follows her around the forums and adds her hateful, vicious comments to the posts that Snake targets. It’s obvious that they’re both damaged and neither has control over their need to belittle other women.
I hope the woman in crisis gets the professional help she needs. Her life is hard and dismal. The last thing she needs is to come to the forums and be bullied. Snake showed no remorse and took no responsibility for what happened with that woman. The next day she was doing the same thing to someone else.
Cyber stalkers are cowards whose written words are poison to the minds and emotions of the victims they choose.
This is a great article posted by MyDestiny2011 on the topic of cyber stalking by women. If you have a personal story to share please let me know.
Originally posted on MyDestiny2011:
There are many reasons why women opt to turn into female Hydes, but seemingly Malaysian women bullies are who they are because society made them so.
THERE have always been bullies, but the increase in adult “mean girls” (the namesake film and Gossip Girls popularised the misdeeds and misbehaviour of female bullies) which, if before it existed only in social circles, has spilled over into the workplace, and almost every sphere of life.
It is an incredibly painful experience to have, or to observe. Because of the equality agenda, women have decided to be hostile and aggressive, and vent their insecurities on their victims. And because women are taught not to complain, and be good, the victims keep silent or choose to ignore the bullies.
Who are these women who heap abuse on other women … and men as well? If you’re to meet them, you’d be floored by their…
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Based on my own experience of being the victim of cyber stalking, I’m going to share the stories of women who have been harmed online by female predators. This is the first of a series of posts dedicated to bringing awareness to the problem.
It’s difficult for me to imagine women victimizing other women. I’ve always had the opinion that women should be treated with dignity and respect. If that’s not possible it’s better to just walk away and not cause any harm.
Women are often subjected to harsh criticism at home, in the workplace and in social situations. The internet has now become a stalker’s paradise. Female predators are using websites, email, chat rooms and public blogs and forums to stalk and bully their victims.
Meet My Stalkers…
I have six cyber stalkers at the present time….all six are female predators.
I’ve been blogging with a group of men and women on a public forum for a few months. Many of the people I interact with have become personal friends.
Over the past four months it’s become increasingly ugly with a group of cyber stalkers whose only interest is to humiliate and victimize other women. Many of us have been repeatedly targeted, bullied and stalked by these women on the site.
These stalkers are adult women in ages ranging from their 40′s to 60′s. They gang up on their victim, sometimes two to four perpetrators working together at the same time.
They write a blog for the purpose of making a person the subject of ridicule and then they all post to it. They feed off each other and the posting goes on for several hours. They also instigate others to join in and post demeaning comments aimed at humiliating and bullying their target.
These women have never met me or talked to me outside of the dating site, and know nothing about me firsthand. They have no vested interest in a friendship with me. Yet they don’t hesitate to publicly criticize, bully and embarrass me on a regular basis.
They rely on gossip or personal opinions to come up with embarrassing comments. These six women constantly engage in deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior that is intended to emotionally harm the women they target.
Who are these mean girls? I call them the Vampire Twins, the Madams and the Heartless Duo. More about them at another time. For now, I hope I have piqued your interest on the topic. Stay tuned for more.
“When we judge or criticize another person, it says nothing about that person; it merely says something about our own need to be critical.” – Unknown
It pays to be fearless.