The Easy Way Out

Whatever happened to the old fashioned way of breaking up?

The ideal way to dump someone is face to face with honesty and compassion. If you can be honest and communicate in person that the relationship is over you deserve some credit for being on top of your game. You put on your big boy or big girl pants to pull this off without trying to devastate your soon to be ex. The problem is, it takes courage to step up and many prefer the easy way out.

On the other hand, you might be feeling a lot of anger and hostility if they’ve cheated, lied or have done things to cause you a lot of anguish during the relationship.   Revenge is sweet so if you want to do it in the most hurtful and immature way possible it’s likely one of these will be your breakup method of choice.

-write an email

-send a text

-leave a phone message

-fake your own death

-lose their number

-date their best friend

-become invisible and don’t answer their calls or texts

-leave a Post-It note on their pillow

-have a friend tell them

-change your online status to Single and let them figure it out

Whether you simply want to take the easy way out or feel you need to even the score,  pick your poison wisely because in the world of Karma what goes around comes around.  Have a great day. Love to all…Karm

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About Karmic Diva

I'm a song in the key of life, a work in progress, a diamond in the rough. I write, scribble, babble and doodle endlessly. I'm here to love and learn. -Karmic Diva-

Posted on February 6, 2012, in Dating & Sex, Humor, Writing and tagged , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.

  1. Karm,
    I absolutely agree with you, GF…Nothing in the world is worse then someone making you feel like you’re their world , with you feeling the same way, then they yank the rug from under you, leaving you hanging & saying, ” What happened??”ANYONE deserves an answer, in person, but so many are too cowardly, I’m sorry to say…Wonderful rant! You go, sweete!
    Hugs…

  2. Miss jandkray…so glad you agree. Even when we think we know someone after some time together I find that when their balls are to the wall the real them comes out. Not always a pretty sight either. Hugs to you

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