The Easy Way Out
Whatever happened to the old fashioned way of breaking up?
The ideal way to dump someone is face to face with honesty and compassion. If you can be honest and communicate in person that the relationship is over you deserve some credit for being on top of your game. You put on your big boy or big girl pants to pull this off without trying to devastate your soon to be ex. The problem is, it takes courage to step up and many prefer the easy way out.
On the other hand, you might be feeling a lot of anger and hostility if they’ve cheated, lied or have done things to cause you a lot of anguish during the relationship. Revenge is sweet so if you want to do it in the most hurtful and immature way possible it’s likely one of these will be your breakup method of choice.
-write an email
-send a text
-leave a phone message
-fake your own death
-lose their number
-date their best friend
-become invisible and don’t answer their calls or texts
-leave a Post-It note on their pillow
-have a friend tell them
-change your online status to Single and let them figure it out
Whether you simply want to take the easy way out or feel you need to even the score, pick your poison wisely because in the world of Karma what goes around comes around. Have a great day. Love to all…Karm
Posted on February 6, 2012, in Dating & Sex, Humor, Writing and tagged breaking up, humor, love, musings, online dating, rants, relationships, sex and dating, women, writing. Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.