Monthly Archives: April 2012

Where is Matt?

Where the hell is Matt?

I can never watch this video without getting teary.  Matt travels the world bringing people together to dance.  Enjoy the video.

Find out more about Matt and his travels online. Visit his website to watch more videos.

Lyrics translated in English :

The same stream of life that runs through my veins night and day
runs through the world and dances in rhythmic measures.

It is the same life that shoots in joy through the dust of the earth
in numberless blades of grass
and breaks into tumultuous waves of leaves and flowers.

It is the same life that is rocked in the ocean-cradle of birth
and of death, in ebb and in flow.

I feel my limbs are made glorious by the touch of this world of life.
And my pride is from the life-throb of ages dancing in my blood this moment.


It pays to be fearless.  Love to you all…Karm


Self-Portrait #1

Today is all about me.  I love me days…me time…me, me, me.

I wish David Bowie was here to share it with me.

It pays to be fearless. Love to you all…Karm

Mean Girls #2

Sunday wasn’t a typical day on the forums. A young woman dealing with HIV and drug addiction posted a disturbing message.  She claimed she was going to kill herself with a bottle of Xanax and vodka.  Her post went into detail about her desperation for acceptance and support from her family, who has turned their back on her.

She also posted about a woman on the site who has been bullying her in the forums and how hopeless she felt because of it.  She was coming to the site for friendship and emotional support and was met with humiliation and degradation more than once.

Fortunately one of her friends on the site had her phone number and contacted the local police in her town. The police found her address and they responded. She was found in time before she hurt herself. I have no doubt she was in an emotional crisis and if she hadn’t reached out for help she may have acted on her impulse to die.

The bully is one of the “heartless duo” (AKA Snake and Fake). I mentioned them in my earlier post Mean Girls #1.  They stalk their prey together and then gang bang bully their victim.  Snake is a ruthless 50 year old hag who prowls through the forums begging for attention.  Fake is a bully in her late 50’s who desperately seeks approval.

Snake and Fake are a team but Snake is clearly the instigator.  Fake follows her around the forums and adds her hateful, vicious comments to the posts that Snake targets.  It’s obvious that they’re both damaged and neither has control over their need to belittle other women.

I hope the woman in crisis gets the professional help she needs. Her life is hard and dismal. The last thing she needs is to come to the forums and be bullied.  Snake showed no remorse and took no responsibility for what happened with that woman.  The next day she was doing the same thing to someone else.

Cyber stalkers are cowards whose written words are poison to the minds and emotions of the victims they choose.

Versatile Blogger Award

I absolutely love awards. I was nominated for the Versatile Blogger Award.
I’m so flattered you thought of me Miss Z at  Blame it on Disney.
Thank you for your kindness.

Here are the rules:
Thank the blogger who nominated you.
Share 7 random things about yourself.
Nominate 15 fellow bloggers.
Inform the bloggers of their nomination.
Add the “Versatile Blogger Award” to your blog.

Let’s see…7 random things about me

1. I’ve been known to have short spurts of lunatic moments…run when it happens

2. My favorite saying: “it pays to be fearless

3. I believe we all have a purpose and a place in the universe that is uniquely ours

4. I love quickly, trust slowly

5. Things that make me happy: chocolate, bubble baths, being pampered

6. When it comes to taking risks, when I want something I go after it

7. When it comes to dating I prefer quality over quantity

The best part of receiving an award is being able to give it back to bloggers who inspire me. I’m thrilled to nominate these bloggers for the Versatile Blogger Award. They entertain, make me think and raise my awareness about things I should pay more attention to.  Thank you fellow bloggers and love to all of you.

Very Inspiring Blogger Award

I’m finally catching up with my awards. Heavy turbulence in life has kept me very busy. It’s been days since I’ve posted anything.  Things seem to be quiet now. First I want to thank the bloggers who nominated me for the Very Inspiring Blogger Award. Please look at their writing. It’s fabulous.

Thank you Beyond Words for nominating me for a second Very Inspiring Blogger Award.  Your blog is inspiring and beautiful.

John the Aussie at Dumb Workers nominated me for a third Very Inspiring Blogger Award.  Your blogs are entertaining and they make me think. Thank you.

These are the rules for this award:

Thank the person who nominated you
Share seven thing about yourself
Pass the award to seven nominees

7 things about me:

– I hate clutter but I can never get away from it…it’s everywhere

– Things I love to shop for: books, shoes and music…I never have enough

– Something I’ll never give up on: learning new things

– What I’m exceptionally good at: giving advice (but not so good at taking it)

– Nobody is more critical of me than me.  I blame it on my inner b*tch

– My right brain is my inbox and my left brain is my outbox

– My cat has her own email and Facebook page.  She has more friends than I do.

Here are my seven nominees for bloggers who inspire, entertain and share so much of themselves with us all.  There are so many others that also deserve this award. Keep spreading the love.

Wacky Pete’s Wicked & Wonderful Words of Wis-dumb

Everydayclimb’s Blog

A Nut’s Notes

Wise Little Nuggets

Visions of Apollo

Miss Z at  Blame it on Disney

Kiss the Muse

The rises of female bullies

This is a great article posted by MyDestiny2011 on the topic of cyber stalking by women. If you have a personal story to share please let me know.


There are many reasons why women opt to turn into female Hydes, but seemingly Malaysian women bullies are who they are because society made them so.

THERE have always been bullies, but the increase in adult “mean girls” (the namesake film and Gossip Girls popularised the misdeeds and misbehaviour of female bullies) which, if before it existed only in social circles, has spilled over into the workplace, and almost every sphere of life.

It is an incredibly painful experience to have, or to observe. Because of the equality agenda, women have decided to be hostile and aggressive, and vent their insecurities on their victims. And because women are taught not to complain, and be good, the victims keep silent or choose to ignore the bullies.

Who are these women who heap abuse on other women … and men as well? If you’re to meet them, you’d be floored by their…

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Mean Girls #1

Based on my own experience of being the victim of cyber stalking, I’m going to share the stories of women who have been harmed online by female predators. This is the first of a series of posts dedicated to bringing awareness to the problem.

It’s difficult for me to imagine women victimizing other women. I’ve always had the opinion that women should be treated with dignity and respect. If that’s not possible it’s better to just walk away and not cause any harm.

Women are often subjected to harsh criticism at home, in the workplace and in social situations. The internet has now become a stalker’s paradise. Female predators are using websites, email, chat rooms and public blogs and forums to stalk and bully their victims.

Meet My Stalkers…

I have six cyber stalkers at the present time….all six are female predators.

I’ve been blogging with a group of men and women on a public forum for a few months.  Many of the people I interact with have become personal friends.

Over the past four months it’s become increasingly ugly with a group of cyber stalkers  whose only interest is to humiliate and victimize other women.   Many of us have been repeatedly targeted, bullied and stalked by these women on the site.

These stalkers are adult women in ages ranging from their 40’s to 60’s.  They gang up on their victim, sometimes two to four perpetrators working together at the same time.

They write a blog for the purpose of making a person the subject of ridicule and then they all post to it.  They feed off each other and the posting goes on for several hours. They also instigate others to join in and post demeaning comments aimed at humiliating and bullying their target.

These women have never met me or talked to me outside of the dating site, and know nothing about me firsthand.  They have no vested interest in a friendship with me. Yet they don’t hesitate to publicly criticize, bully and embarrass me on a regular basis.

They rely on gossip or personal opinions to come up with embarrassing comments.  These six women constantly engage in deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior that is intended to emotionally harm the women they target.

Who are these mean girls? I call them the Vampire Twins, the Madams and the Heartless Duo. More about them at another time. For now, I hope I have piqued your interest on the topic. Stay tuned for more.

“When we judge or criticize another person, it says nothing about that person; it merely says something about our own need to be critical.” – Unknown

It pays to be fearless.

Reader Appreciation Award

Dang and whoopee doo!

I was just nominated for the Reader Appreciation Award.

I’m so flattered. Thank you for this nomination silentlyheardonce.

I really love reading her blog. Please visit her blog and follow her like I do.

The rules for accepting this award:

  • Post a link back to the person who nominated you.
  • Nominate six bloggers who you love to follow and read.

The best part of getting an award is that you get to give it away too. I wish I could give it to everyone I follow because I get something special and unique from each of them.

so sassy and single

tidbits and dollops

hello my sin is

mega worth it

Mindful Drawing

The Wanderer’s Thoughts

Happy Day

-Singing happy songs-

-Writing happy words-

-Dancing happy steps-

-Smiling happy smiles-

-Thinking happy thoughts-

-Counting happy blessings-

-Don’t sit there waiting for happy-

-Be it, feel it, touch it, bend it, kiss it-

-Have a happy day-

A Talk with God

Are you there God?   It’s me…Karm!

I’m just checking in to see if you got my last memo.  I realize that when one door closes another one opens, but you never sent me the map to get to the door.

Wednesday I googled “open door” to see if there was a map online.  I found a few yoga studios and a baptist church but they’re all located in Boston, and you know how I hate to drive in the city.

Thursday I programmed my GPS to help me find the “open door.” I don’t think the dive bar 80 miles from home was exactly what you had in mind for me…at least I hope not.

Today I’m going to the mall. There are a lot of open doors there. Maybe I’ll get lucky. I need a pair of red heels so the trip won’t be a total waste if I don’t find the right door.

Please email me the map as soon as possible. I’m karmic but not psychic. I’ll check my inbox later today.

BTW please ignore yesterday’s prayer. I can wait on the Caribbean cruise.  I’m too busy to travel  right now anyway.

Peace, love and forever yours,

Karmic Diva

(your quintessential goddess)