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30 Women in 30 Days – Day 14

When I started this blog series two weeks ago I felt rebellious toward the “perfect woman” image that permeates the media and the fashion industry. It’s an absurd image that few woman can achieve, yet so many aspire to it.

If we’re curvy we’re too fat to measure up to society’s standardized version of beauty…extreme thinness.  Consequently we often end up hating our bodies.

Excessive exercising, extreme dieting and overuse of diet pills and laxatives to lose weight are warning signs that a person could be anorexic.

How thin is thin enough?

Fashion model Ana Carolina Reston died from complications of anorexia in 2005 at the age of 21.

She weighed 88 pounds when she died.

You can see this young woman’s anorexia progress over time until her death.  To me this is not beauty.  It’s extreme malnutrition and starvation. The fact that she was still getting runway modeling jobs shortly before her death is tragic.  It says a lot about the type of body the fashion industry holds in esteem.

Do you ever ask yourself…

Q. If I’m thinner will I be beautiful?

A. You don’t need to be thinner. You’re already beautiful.

Q. If I’m thinner will I be sexier?

A. You don’t need to be thinner to be sexy.  Curves are sexy.

Q. If I’m thinner will I be happy?

A. You don’t need to be thinner to be happy.  You’ll be happier when you learn to love yourself.

Curvy is beautiful!



The lurking compulsion provokes intensity beyond human reason

When the dominant forces within are awakened I become invisible

Even a whisper in the darkness can bring unwanted attention

The tiniest glow of light from the outer world reveals the cluttered truth

A shallow mind seeks refuge from the storms of disruptive deceptions

While longing eats away at the shadows of all things real and important

Obsessions…do we all have one or maybe a few?

Or are they only for the deranged and deviant?

Is your obsession an image, a feeling, a desire, an object?

Are obsessions the ultimate desire for the forbidden?

Is obsession a burning need to conquer and control?

Any thoughts?

It pays to be fearless.  Love to all…Karm